Curse you all, my boner requires more Nana to Kaoru!
Additional; Ichi the Killer is HILARIOUS.
Age 35, Male
Bum
England, UK
Joined on 12/18/04
Posted by Trambamboline - March 31st, 2012
Curse you all, my boner requires more Nana to Kaoru!
Additional; Ichi the Killer is HILARIOUS.
Why'd he hafta decide BDSM wasn't for him? ._.
I'm sorry hun. I thought I had it bad not being able to find partners. ^^;
Sdf. I want to be dominated.
I'm sure you'll find someone else to dominate you the way you want.
I doubt it. I only meet subs and switches. And those switches never want to dominate me. Prior to you the last time I was dominated was before I signed up to NG.
Maybe you need to look elsewhere then. Fetlife and /d/ aren't bad and I'm sure there are other places. :P
Maybe. But subs are drawn to me easily, I just need to learn to do that with doms too.
Damn you and your luck. >.<
It's easy, you just need to lead with your dominance and be a successful attention whore. Then the subs will find you.
I don't know how to lead with my submissiveness though, I mean, I can think of a few small ways, but that's it.
It is rather hard, I'd imagine. You can't exactly demand someone dominate you. :P
I can.
"Please dominate me?"
"Okay."
Suddenly play time.
"Please dominate me."
"No."
Suddenly subspace.
I did think of that old joke when I was typing that up actually, but still... xD
It does actually work. But only if I'm in or close to subspace.
Well it makes sense. You're desperate for something and you're denied it, which is a major turn on for you.
Being denied orgasm (and edged frequently) is a major turn on.
Being denied a fetish/ need is a minor turn on with a lot of hate-like and resentment mixed in. This group also holds being told to orgasm/ not touch myself. It can turn me off, but at the same time puts me in deeper subspace.
Besides, toys are for the amusement of others... nothing else.
Of course. Why should the person playing with the toy give a rat's ass what the toy wants?
karlu20
You aren't the only one suffering.
Trambamboline
I saw. My condolences.